• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

Dawn Barclay

Helping you align all that you do with your core values

  • New? Start Here
  • Is This You?
    • You Want to Reclaim Your Courage & Confidence
    • You Want to Align Who You Are With What You ‘Do’ In the World
    • You Need More Moxie for Your Business
    • You Are Looking for Values Training for You or Your Team/Group
  • Work Together
    • Online Workshops & Training (All)
    • Live Events & Training Workshops (All)
    • Upcoming Events (List)
    • ValuesBase© Coaching
  • Blog
  • About
    • Living Moxie Mission & Values
    • Approach & Ethos
    • About Dawn
    • About You, The Moxieologist
    • Kind Words
    • Contact

There Is No Shame In Removing Your Mask…

August 15 Dawn

Who is the mask for? It doesn’t matter if you put it there, or others placed it upon you.

We all are wearing masks, covering up and keeping ourselves ‘safe’ and protected. How dare we reveal what is really going on in our world. How dare we say what we really feel. How dare we ask for help.

When the mask begins to slip the first reaction is to shoot up your hand and put it back in place. 

Did anyone see the real you even for a second? What will people think? How will they react? What will they say? Will they be upset that underneath there is a very different story taking place? Do you feel shame and guilt because you exposed the parts of you you never dreamed others would discover?

Holding on to the mask is exhausting. Tiring. Painful to keep in place.

The thing is, we’re all wearing them:

  • Masks of shame.
  • Masks of guilt.
  • Masks of regret.
  • Masks of struggling.
  • Masks of pain.
  • Masks of fears.
  • Masks of imperfections.
  • Masks of failures.

Let it slip. Let it fall. Remove the layer.

Why?

Here you go…

“The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.” Singer, Jim Morrision

 

You’ve been walking the ocean’s edge, holding up your robes to keep them dry. You must dive naked under, and deeper under, a thousand times deeper. Rumi

 

“…be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.” Henry David Thoreau

 

“Vulnerability is the only authentic state. Being vulnerable means being open, for wounding, but also for pleasure. Being open to the wounds of life means also being open to the bounty and beauty. Don’t mask or deny your vulnerability: it is your greatest asset. Be vulnerable: quake and shake in your boots with it. the new goodness that is coming to you, in the form of people, situations, and things can only come to you when you are vulnerable, i.e. open.” Stephen Russell

Read the last quote again please.

Dawn xxx

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Kitty Kilian says

    August 21 at 6:15 pm

    Yay! I wholeheartedly agree.

    Reply
  2. Dawn says

    August 24 at 10:56 am

    Hey you — how are you? I nipped over — no subtitles — although I did understand some words — it’s not my Dutch that’s improving, it’s that Linkedin, Twitter, Facebook have no alternatives. Should I go somewhere else to find subtitles? Dawn

    Reply
    • Jacob JAn says

      August 24 at 12:59 pm

      Hi.

      I’m Fine.

      (just now in the midst of a lesson myself, so feeling a bit wobly)

      there’s a subtitle ico on youtube. It used to be “c.c” but it’s now a box with two lines. (lower bar, on the right, next to the settings button) that doenst work for you?
      What a shame.

      I’m began to record my “lessons-for-life” in english. This is the first one.
      http://youtu.be/YUfoIFYhr3k
      Bit that’s not the one about the masks.

      Il’ do that one next.

      Reply
      • Jacob JAn says

        August 24 at 4:30 pm

        thought I had posted it. but here it is, in english:
        http://youtu.be/loTd_igWbEk

        Reply

Leave a Reply to Kitty Kilian Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Living Moxie Sidebar 1 Hello there you. Once upon a time you were, literally, fully yourself. If you need some help to deploy the most authentic version of you into the world I would love to support you. If this is your first visit click here and let me welcome you properly. Or a great starting place is the resources. Love, Dawn Xo

SELF-PACED WORKSHOPS

#define your core


What do you stand for? What matters to you? To help, download the Core Values Workbook. Click here to find out more.

Recent Posts

  • I Hate the Language of Cancer
  • Scratching Your Itches
  • Let’s Talk About ‘Shooting Yourself In the Foot’
  • On Being Enough
  • Career Hijacking (A Story)
  • It Was Just a Thought
  • Try V’s Committed
  • What Are You (Really) Focusing On?
  • You Are Only As Good as Your Last Fuck Up…
  • Finding Your Way Through (& You Will, You Will)

Recent Comments

  • Dawn on Why Perfectionism and Business Don’t Mix
  • You're Not Perfect! Get Over It and Get Things Done! - Dawn Mentzer, Freelance Marketing Content Writer on Why Perfectionism and Business Don’t Mix
  • Nario on Stop Punishing Your Optimism. Seriously.
  • Roberto Barabbas on 65 Ways To Really Mess Up Your Life
  • joe on Do You Have a Fear of Speaking In Meetings?

For You

  • Blog
  • Updates & Toolkit
  • Confidence Course
  • Define Your Core

Online Programmes & Workshops

the-moxie-project-2 Unfinished Human

Blog Categories

COPYRIGHT © 2017 · LIVING MOXIE · Privacy · Contact · Google+