• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

Dawn Barclay

Helping you align all that you do with your core values

  • New? Start Here
  • Is This You?
    • You Want to Reclaim Your Courage & Confidence
    • You Want to Align Who You Are With What You ‘Do’ In the World
    • You Need More Moxie for Your Business
    • You Are Looking for Values Training for You or Your Team/Group
  • Work Together
    • Online Workshops & Training (All)
    • Live Events & Training Workshops (All)
    • Upcoming Events (List)
    • ValuesBase© Coaching
  • Blog
  • About
    • Living Moxie Mission & Values
    • Approach & Ethos
    • About Dawn
    • About You, The Moxieologist
    • Kind Words
    • Contact

Goal Setting: Plan For The Worst, Expect the Best

January 22 Dawn

The WORST!

Okay, I’ll be gentle with ‘ya, let’s change it to ‘plan for the best, expect the unexpected’.

Let’s assume you’ve kicked off on a goal and things are going great, everything is going to plan. Then for whatever reason you slam into a literal brick wall. Something happens which you didn’t plan for. You didn’t see it coming.

If this has happened to you before, you may have lost motivation or drive because the brick wall seems like such a large obstacle in your path.

As much as we’d like to hope that things will always go according to plan, we know better.

Life is not planned.

We can’t expect that the entire universe and all the energy bouncing around in it is going to sit in alignment with what we want. If that sounds a little woowoo to you, read this (it’s a little woo-ier to some, but you’ll get it, and clearly explains what that means.)

The goal, for the goals is to always expect the best, but to have covered all bases. That means at least spending time on working out the answers to ‘what would I do if … happened?’

Call it the back up plan, the contingency, the other route. Whatever suits you.

Having a “Plan B” for every step of your journey can save you a lot of time, not to mention frustration!

Now, Plan B is not ‘if this doesn’t work, then I’ll do this’. The goal is the same. The different route to it is plan B!

Imagine the difference between feeling stuck because your path is blocked, or calmly switching gears and moving to Plan B.  It can make or break the fulfillment of your goals.

I love the story of the train driver who comes to a broken tree convering the railway line. The driver doesn’t keep banging into the tree, he has to think of other ways to get moving again. He could remove the tree, ask for help, reverse and find another route. It sometimes isn’t the preferred route, but he’s committed to getting the passengers to their destination, even if it means adding a little extra time to the journey.

It’s easy to forget that there are numerous paths leading to any desired outcome.

While we might be attracted to one path over another, ultimately the outcome is the most important thing, right?

In order to ensure momentum, take a few minutes to prepare an alternate plan for each part of your goal.  Focus not only on alternate paths to the final goal, but alternate activities for each of your action steps.

Here is a simple way to identify viable alternate activities:  as you review each step, consider the question,

“What would I do if this step or activity was not possible?”

  1. Goal Setting: Get Really, Really Specific
  2. Goals and Mindset
  3. Goals and Timescales
  4. Chunk Up Your Goals So They Are Manageable
  5. Building Momentum and Taking Action on Your Goals
  6. Evaluate and Review Your Goals

Reader Interactions

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Living Moxie Sidebar 1 Hello there you. Once upon a time you were, literally, fully yourself. If you need some help to deploy the most authentic version of you into the world I would love to support you. If this is your first visit click here and let me welcome you properly. Or a great starting place is the resources. Love, Dawn Xo

SELF-PACED WORKSHOPS

#define your core


What do you stand for? What matters to you? To help, download the Core Values Workbook. Click here to find out more.

Recent Posts

  • Scratching Your Itches
  • Let’s Talk About ‘Shooting Yourself In the Foot’
  • On Being Enough
  • Career Hijacking (A Story)
  • It Was Just a Thought
  • Try V’s Committed
  • What Are You (Really) Focusing On?
  • You Are Only As Good as Your Last Fuck Up…
  • Finding Your Way Through (& You Will, You Will)
  • I’ve reached 50! And I Know Nothing …

Recent Comments

  • Dawn on Why Perfectionism and Business Don’t Mix
  • You're Not Perfect! Get Over It and Get Things Done! - Dawn Mentzer, Freelance Marketing Content Writer on Why Perfectionism and Business Don’t Mix
  • Nario on Stop Punishing Your Optimism. Seriously.
  • Roberto Barabbas on 65 Ways To Really Mess Up Your Life
  • joe on Do You Have a Fear of Speaking In Meetings?

For You

  • Blog
  • Updates & Toolkit
  • Confidence Course
  • Define Your Core

Online Programmes & Workshops

the-moxie-project-2 Unfinished Human

Blog Categories

COPYRIGHT © 2017 · LIVING MOXIE · Privacy · Contact · Google+