Boost Your Confidence and Increase Your Self Esteem

 

You're Confidence Toolkit

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The world of 'self help' and personal development is huge, and you've probably read messages (if you've been searching for help for a while) of 'instant results' or 'immediate success' or 'change your life overnight'.

 

Would you agree that we all want to live a life that is confident, purposeful, inspiring, meaningful, free from fear: where we can handle challenges and overcome barriers quicker, with more focus, drive and determination?

 

Sounds lovely, huh?

 

What about success? Sure, it means something different to all of us. Yet, wouldn't we all like to be going for those big dreams, goals, plans and taking action on our ideas?

 

Who doesn't? Yet, I dont know about you, but I never got the 'how to' lessons.

 

Your toolkit is your lessons. (Aside: I encourage you not to stop here at my website. Keep searching, keep adding and finding the right pieces of information for you.)

 

Applying The Lessons

 

A great painter becomes so by applying their lessons: using the tools she has gathered and hours of practice, not by keeping all her tools in tiptop condition in her toolkit.

 

If you have all the carpentry tools, you're still not a carpenter until you learn how to use the tools in the right way, for the right job, at the right time. Make sense?

 

I believe, the same applies to personal growth, development and confidence building. The tools you gather become committed to using them on a daily basis.

 

Like the painter, some of the time may be 'trial and error', you may make mistakes or struggle with an idea, you may find that a certain technique is not working for you: to become a master learn the alternatives!

 

Will You Get 'Instant Results'?

 

Um, well! How instant is instant?

 

As much as I would love to say to you 'yes', I'd be inaccurate.

 

The way I work with people (through training, events, services) gets results. Yet, I have no idea if you will apply all (or some) of the messages and lessons in the toolkit. When working personally with clients, this can be measured by their personal outcomes.

 

Was it instant for them? Not all the time.

 

The long lasting change comes from taking massive action and stepping way out and beyond your comfort zones: keeping on going when what you want to do most is say 'I quit!'

 

And for some of my previous clients this is not always easy -- they go through 'ups and downs', they may even struggle with their growth and development (for a time), they may fail (get stuck) a few times or find it a challenge to keep on going when everything is a barrier in their way.

 

Sometimes, the change comes when the person says 'time to get out my own way'! We, usually are the 'culprits' to stumping our own growth!

 

What Gives Me The Right To Say This?

 

Since 1996, I have worked as a personal & professional development trainer, coach.

 

I have worked with people (individually, in groups, teams) who (for example) have been unemployed for years have obtained meaningful employment, people who have never stood up and given a presentation have overcome their fear and spoke to 100 people, people with an 'idea' for their own business have made the leap from employee to entreprenuer.

 

The people I work with experience some of the following:

 

A life loaded with fear and terrified they can't move past it

 

Unable to switch off and relax, worried and extremely anxious about situations

 

A lack of personal power

 

Unable to handle conflict

 

Feelings that their life is a wreck and they are tired of feeling that way.

 

Unable to talk to people: including speaking in public

 

Unemployment and difficulty in selling themselves

 

Looking for the confidence to change career

 

Stuck/stopped and not sure what to do about it

 

Jobs where they feel out their depth

 

Wanting to raise confident children

 

Running a business and scared it is going to fail

 

Lack of assertiveness and unable to say no

 

Overcoming a difficult period in life

 

Scared of what others think of them and unable to let go

 

I could go on FOREVER! It can be summed up in one word FEAR!

 

Fear of rejection, ridicule, embarassment, failing/falling, not being good enough and so on...

 

Oh! It Has a Major Flaw

 

Which is, tar- raa, it's free!

 

This is a flaw because human beings don't attach the same value to free as bought, it's my intention that there is something here that you can use and apply today. Even if it's one teeny little piece of information that makes you sit up and say 'ah-ha', it's done it's job!

 

Change has to begin somewhere, this could be the start you need.

 

Why Is It Free?

 

You may decide to stick around and let me help you further (you may choose to attend a course or live seminar or similar) if you don't, that's fine too.

 

It's a taster, a 'toe dip', a way of connecting with people like you, who might want help further on. An intro to the way I work. You can of course unsubscribe at anytime and your details are confidential.

 

NB: The toolkit contains all of the following, however you may only want to download one or two items, just click on the read more link at the bottom of each section.

 

Your confidence toolkit includes:

 

Confidence Information Sheets

 

• What is Confidence?
• Preparing for Change
• Beliefs - The Seed of it All
• Changing Beliefs
• Your Amazing Brain
• How To Deal With Negative People

 

 

Your Time to Shine

 

99 Ways To Live Your Life Empowered

 

Short, snappy and quick read. Little paragraphs of to achieving empowerment in all areas of your life.

 

 

The BIG Book of Affirmations

 

Small Success Statements Your Brain Will Thank You For

 

Need help to write them? Start with this list. Split into different areas of your life: take them as a starting point for your own, re-write and use. Read More)

 

 

Goal Setting Workbook

 

Whether you set them or not, I have included this so you can begin to plan and set action steps related to your confidence. Read More

 

 

 

 

Copy of Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

 

Written in the 30's it is what many personal development and self help programmes are 'based' around.

 

The information in Think and Grow rich is still used today. Some chapters will resonate more than others with you, however their are key pieces of information that can applied. Read More

 

 

Copy of The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D Wattles

 

One of the books that insprired 'The Secret'...I'm mentioning THAT book, because I know you will probably have heard of it. It is v-e-r-y different to the diluted down version.

 

This books contains 'success' tools. It is very much the basis for the 'law of attraction' and, there are some great chapters on mindset. Read More

 

 

'Dare to Be You' Ebook

 

Full of little dares for life. Short and snappy read.

Read More This was written as an intro to a programme in 2009, it's purpose to 'trigger' ideas and thoughts!

 

 

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