Free Confidence + Self Esteem E-Course

(Well! Sort of. It’s more a love letter/chat/pep talk/I believe in you/hold on type thing … but it is lessons. From the heart from me to you. Read on and all will be explained.)

What did you do to land up here? Did you type ‘confidence, self-esteem, want it, lost it, how to build it, where the feck has it gone?’

And boom hello gorgeous, there you are?

Okay dokey, here we go. I’ll start by firing a pile of questions at you, and maybe you’ll nod your head to a few.

Have you lost your confidence and self-esteem?

Do you wonder where the real you has gone?

Is the lack stopping you creating what you want to create in your life?

Stuck. Lost. Living in fear, doubt and self-sabotaging yourself?

Urgh!

If that’s you, please help yourself to this free confidence course.

Let me guess, what you feel on the inside isn’t always showing on the surface.

• You may have confidence in some areas of your life and you may wing it in others.
• You probably already know how it’s negatively affecting your life, career and little biz.
• You may be saying no to opportunities that present themselves to you because you’re not sure if you’re good enough.
• You may desire another career path or want to look for a new role but right now that’s not possible because you doubt your abilities.
• You may have some brilliant ideas for your little biz but your low confidence is stopping you starting.

I get it.

To avoid more pain you may have started to put up barriers, blame, get frustrated and angry. Or the lack could manifest in other ways: throwing yourself into your work, striving for perfectionism, living with the Silent Ache.

Low confidence isn’t something you were born with, and it doesn’t have to be carried into your future.

How it got there: experiences, circumstances, conditioning, programming, primary years, events, habits who knows right now.

But please believe me when I say others have regained greater confidence and higher self esteem, so you can too.

Can we take a few minutes and explain what this free confidence building course is all about, and what it isn’t.

Here’s What It Is

This free confidence course course is sent via email, over a period of 30 days.

It’s for you if:

• You have ‘lost’ your confidence and self esteem, and you want it back.
• Your losing faith in your abilities and skills, and it’s preventing you getting stuff done.
• You need a ‘pick me up, a reminder of how fabulous you are.
• You’re fed up buying self help books and doing nothing
• You want to quit feeling like your failing, falling or unworthy.
• Your pissed off living in fear and not shining your own butt.
• You use the word ‘confidence’ when you know it’s something else.

Here’s What It Isn’t

No doubt, the world of ‘self help’ and personal development is huge, and you’ve probably read messages, if you’ve been searching for help for a while, of instant results or immediate success or change your life overnight hoohaa.

In fact, if you type in the words ‘confidence’ into Google I can guarantee you’re going to be faced with sites of unstoppable confidence in 10 minutes or a sales message that hits where it’s really painful for you right now.

Click, click, clickety click, before you know it, you’re typing in your credit card numbers believing that the Zap Yourself Confident in Two Minutes program is just the ticket and going to solve all your problems while you sleep.

Wrong.

The rebuild may take a little a time.

Would you agree that we all want to live a life that is confident, purposeful, inspiring, flourishing, meaningful, free from fear: a life where we can handle challenges and overcome barriers quicker, with more focus, drive and determination?

Here’s what ‘generally’ happens: people buy but don’t apply. The key to change (self directed) not forced upon (external) is taking action, reading another book or going on another workshop won’t cut it, unless application of the lessons are made.

This e-course won’t work for you either, not unless you read the emails, and at least apply one little thing.

I’ve worked with individuals with personal life stories that would make your jaw drop.

Real-life gunk.

And if I were to give them the same lessons as you’re going to get and they left the room, there would be a mini chance of anybody actually changing their life.

Does that mean these lessons don’t work?

No.

But, with respect, it’s only information. All information is worthless unless it’s applied.

Here’s How It Works

You’ll receive 10 emails, each with a different ‘lesson’. In the email are questions, information, tools and perhaps a link back to the blog for further reading and information.

Starting April 15th 2013 there will also be a private Facebook group for people who have taken this course. You’ll be invited via email.

Applying The “Lessons”

(Going to get all deep with you now!)

Like all ‘toolkits’, take and apply what you need, when you need it and store the rest.

A great painter becomes so by applying their lessons: using the tools she has gathered and hours of practice, not by keeping all her tools in tiptop condition in her toolkit.

If you have all the carpentry tools, you’re still not a carpenter until you learn how to use the tools in the right way, for the right job, at the right time. Make sense?

I believe, the same applies to personal growth, development and confidence building.

The tools you gather become second nature as you commit to using them on a daily basis.

Like the painter, some of the time may be ‘trial and error’, you may make mistakes or struggle with an idea, you may find that a certain technique is not working for you: to become a master we need to learn the alternatives! Okay, I’m going to say this, if you do ‘fail’ at any first attempt ~ cut yourself slack please!

Will You Get ‘Instant Results’?

Um, well! How instant is instant to you?

Do you want me to make that promise of overnight success? Nope, it’s not my style or the way I work. Let me explain…

The way I work with people (through training, events, services) gets results. Yet, I have no idea if you will apply all (or some) of the messages and lessons in the e-course. When working personally with clients, this can be measured by their personal outcomes.

It’s a problem this ‘instant’ thing, seriously. No doubt we would love all our trouble, pains, worries, vulnerabilities taken away instantly, yet life isn’t like that.

Change in beliefs, state of mind, thought process can happen instantly, but you still need the tools to make that happen.

The long lasting change comes from taking massive action and stepping way out and beyond your comfort zones: keeping on going when what you want to do most is say ‘I quit!’ And for confidence you may need to unlearn and then relearn.

And for some of my previous clients this is not always easy — they go through ‘ups and downs’, they may even struggle with their growth and development (for a time), they may get stuck, stopped or overwhelmed a few times or find it a challenge to keep on going when everything is a barrier in their way.

Sometimes, the change comes when the person says ‘time to get out my own way’! We, usually are the ‘culprits’ to stumping our own growth. Heck, I’ve even worked with some people who are making huge changes and leaps, only to turn round and go back again because the people around them didn’t like the ‘new them’! We humans are complicated creatures, huh?

What Gives Me The Right To Say This?

Since 1996, I have worked as a personal & professional development trainer and coach, with people just like you.

I have worked with people (individually, in groups, teams) who, for example: have been unemployed for years have obtained meaningful employment, people who have never stood up and given a presentation have overcome their fear and spoke to 100 people, people with an ‘idea’ for their own business have made the leap from employee to entrepreneur.

The people I work with experience some of the following:

• A lack of personal power
• Unable to handle conflict
• Wanting to raise confident children
• Overcoming a difficult period in life
• Jobs where they feel out their depth
• Lack of assertiveness and unable to say no
• Looking for the confidence to change career
• Running a business and scared it is going to fail
• Stuck/stopped and not sure what to do about it
• Unemployment and difficulty in selling themselves
• Unable to talk to people: including speaking in public
• Scared of what others think of them and unable to let go
• A life loaded with fear and terrified they can’t move past it
• Feelings that their life is a wreck and they are tired of feeling that way.
• Unable to switch off and relax, worried and extremely anxious about situations

Oh! It Has a Major Flaw

It’s free!

This is a flaw because human beings don’t attach the same value to free as bought, free doesn’t always mean no use!

Even if it’s one teeny little piece of information that makes you sit up and say ‘ah-ha’, it’s done it’s job!

Change has to begin somewhere, this could be the start you need.

Why Is It Free?

You may decide to stick around and let me help you further (you may choose to attend a course or live seminar or similar), and if you don’t, that’s fine too.

It’s a taster, a ‘toe dip’, a way of connecting with people like you, who might want help further on. You can of course unsubscribe at any time and your details are confidential.

There Must Be a Catch?

Nope. You have every right skeptical. No, this is not an opportunity to sell you viagra, no I won’t give you one lesson and demand payment for the rest, nor will I ‘sell sell sell’.

Yes I offer courses, yes I’ll tell you about them, but really there is no catch. I do hope you stick around — I do hope that you will realise that there is somebody here you can turn to. But crikey, we don’t know each other yet, confidentiality, privacy, your safety matters to me, I wouldn’t blow it.

Confidence Building/Personal Development E-Course

To get this e-course please enter your name in the box below, follow the instructions on the next page, and your first lesson (Your Thinking) will be with you in about 20 seconds.

Please follow the instructions on the next page (the part where you need to confirm your email), so you will receive the lessons. Any problems get in touch.