“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” ~ Maya Angelou
Is It For You?
Have you ever wanted to really identify what it is you’re supposed to be doing with your life? Have you ever wanted to ‘take a course’ that isn’t a quick-fix but a real opportunity for you to discover, rethink and redesign your life? Do you want the opportunity to explore what holds you back and move past it?
Diverting Your Own Path is about making amendments, redesigning and rethinking alternative routes.
- It’s going to be perfect if you’ve been struggling for some time with the ‘what to do with my life?‘ BIG question or you’ve been using language such as ‘stuck, stopped, and lost’.
- You may have a few ideas, plans, thoughts about your future, but your lacking clarity, focus, confidence and esteem to follow them through, or even start. You’ve perhaps been procrastinating and are full of uncertainty, fear, and lack of information.
- You stop yourself from truly flourishing; you’re full of excuses and ‘reasons’ for not doing what you know is going to be vital to your own success (whatever that means to you).
- It’s for you if you talk about ‘finding your thing’ or ‘living with meaning’.
- It’s also going to be spot on for you if you want more positive relationships in your life, where you don’t feel so alone and where you can accomplish small steps with the support of a small group of likeminded people.
Re: the ‘what to do with my life’ question, in my experience, it isn’t just asked once in a lifetime.
My intention is that you can reuse the tools, experience and challenges set the next time you ask it. That the skills you learn stay with you. They can be repeated when you need them again.
“One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began.” ~ Mary Oliver
What Do You Really Want (Do You Know)?
When I ask my clients that question, the answers are never as materialistic such as ‘a new car, new house, 48inch 3D TV, become a multi-millionaire, 2nd home in the Bahamas’.
No, the replies are much more intangible such as: “happiness”, “to find me again”, “warmth”, “love”, “security”, “meaningful work”, “confidence”, “laughter”, “healthy finances”, “independence”, “creativity”, “happy children”, ‘loving relationships”, “feeling part of something”, “belonging”, “spirituality”, “acceptance”, “safety”, “friends”, ” life satisfaction” and so on.
These aren’t ‘things’; nobody can go out and buy the above.
I then ask, when were you taught these?
Silence.
We aren’t taught ‘how to’ live our own path, is it any wonder that so many of us aren’t even thinking about ‘passion, purpose, meaning’?
Should it really be a surprise that people struggle day to day, and that depression is at it’s all time high, is it because we are so far removed from the path we are supposed to be on?
“I see my path, but I don’t know where it leads. Not knowing where I’m going is what inspires me to travel it.” ~ Rosalia de Castro
A little word of warning…
It’s going to challenge safely challenge you. There will be ‘work’, there are tasks to complete.
It won’t suit you if you just like taking course, after course, after course or you are looking for a ‘feely good’ for a little while program.
Or if you’re not a person to open up (even a little) and really be genuine about what’s sticking you, or holding you back. That may scare you, that’s okay, but don’t let a little fear stop you from saying yes if it outweighs what you know you will achieve.
What’s In It For You?
By the end of the 6 weeks (and beyond):
- You get to work on the BIG stuff - I will create a safe environment so you can really explore, identify and plan what you want to happen in your life
- You are using and speaking your truth – getting rid of negative beliefs, self-sabotage and learning to change and go with the flow, giving you a sense of your true identity
- You feel supported and that your life is ‘back on track’ or well on the way – I’ll ask you very powerful questions, I’ll support you to see possibilities and opportunities you may not be seeing right now.
- You are more confident, focused and using your creativity – you will find your confidence through this, I promise, I’ll work with you to build your strength, personal power and courage, show you how to build momentum and engage yourself in meaningful tasks, talk and networks
- You understand belonging and personal acceptance – so that you don’t have to feel lost
- You’ll have the resources at your fingertips to not be stuck, lost, stopped again – whether you use them, that’s your choice, some are generic, some from personal development and others from emotional intelligence and motivational interviewing
- You’ll grow from the experience of learning, sharing and being part of a group that is positive and caring: helping you as much as you offer assistance – this is a massive part of the program, I will create a space where you feel supported and meaning relationships are formed (not forced!)
- You are actually working hard on the challenges and purposeful meaningful goals, you have set yourself (you bring to the program your ideas, I’m not saying which area of your life you have to work on)
- You are able to create, live and sustain your life so that it’s rich, rewarding and meaningful to you (yes, you may have off days in your future, but you know what to do to get back on track quickly)
Without a doubt (in my professional experience) individuals grow and develop further when they are engaged in a process that is rich and meaningful to them.
What does this mean?
Have you ever attended a course or program and wished that you could just be the only person in the room, so that you can work on your ‘stuff’?
The content may have been good, but you wanted to burst, you wanted the time to ‘get it all out’? You wanted someone to sit with you, and your plans and be asked powerful questions, just 1:1?
Yes?
You’ll have this opportunity, through an online private area. You and other members taking the program will have the space to interact with me and with each other.
It’s in this area where you will answer the challenges, support one another and ask questions over the six weeks.
What questions can you ask?
The program is about pursuit of your passion and getting your life back on track, I can imagine the questions are going to be varied. From confidence to careers, projects to plans, hopes to dreams, ‘how do I’ to ‘where can I find’.
“I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be” ~ Douglas Adams
The Nuts and Bolts – What’s Included?
This is a 6 week online program and you’ll receive:
1. 12 x Diversion Sessions
Every week for 6 weeks, you’ll receive 2 Diversion Lessons.
You’ll do work on your own, plus you’ll submit answers to powerful questions in your private area to get support and feedback from me and the rest of your group.
These sessions will include a mix of video, audio and presentations by me and will include a task or challenge for you to complete. A couple of the classes will be live, and the rest I will post in the private area for you. These are powerful lessons, and the content is geared to achieve the outcomes above.
To get the most from the program, I’ll ask you to complete each step as it is released.
You’ll take part in:
2. 6 x Mastermind Group Coaching Calls
Every week, for 6 weeks, you’ll take part in a group mastermind session/Q and A, lasting 75 minutes. Yes, these will be recorded if you can’t make it. On these calls you can submit questions to be answered, or raise your hand and talk to me direct about the week’s previous lessons.
If you have never attended a group coaching call before, they are interactive, fun and powerful, you’ll learn and gain tools, tips and knowledge from others questions as well as your own. We’ll focus on the previous weeks sessions and then open the calls for Q and A.
3. Private Group Site
This is where the experience counts. I know if you were to accept the lessons, complete the challenges and attend the calls, you would gain LOADS from the program. However, I know that the private group site is the place where you’ll interact, network, support your peers and receive support it’s where ‘magic’ happens.
Two times a week, you’ll submit your answers to the challenges in the private site, others will read yours and comment and you will be able to do the same back. You may not want to post everything, that’s fine, only what you are comfortable with, you can email me anything you want me to look at in private.
The private members site will be a safe, secure, supportive space.
4. Individual Coaching
With me, for one hour. You may not be one to speak up in a group or want to discuss privately what’s happening with you.
Registration
This program is now closed for registration.
To register please complete click the button below, and I’ll be in touch to organise you pre-course coaching call.
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You will get my personal attention and help throughout the entire program (you’ll have my email address, the ‘lessons’, the live lessons, mastermind/Q and A calls, access to the private site), I want to help you in any way I can.
And lastly, if the above isn’t for you take this away: Find out who you are and do it on purpose.
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